Sex With Emily

It’s my favorite month of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s throwback show, I’m honoring the month of self-love and giving you a brief history of the celebration, the health benefits of masturbation, and my favorite toys and lubes for bringing you pleasure this May and all year long.

In this episode you’ll learn: 

What to do if you feel yourself relying too much on your vibrator

Why masturbation can help you have orgasms during sex with your partner

Signs that you’re masturbating too much


Show Notes:

Mutual Masturbation Guide

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Today, I continue my conversation with my friend, YouTube personality, public speaker, and author Matthew Hussey. We chat about his latest book, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily No Matter What, Matthew’s texting skills, and why it’s best to follow your path and not your feelings. And if you were wondering about the texting cliffhanger from Part 1, it’s answered in today’s show. Enjoy!
In this episode you’ll learn: 

Why “avoiders” can be more of a red flag in relationships than liars

When to make things work and when it's not worth it

Why speaking your truth is sexy


Show Notes:

Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1

Matthew’s New Book: Love Life


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When it comes to sex, a lot of us find ourselves getting in our head about the way it “should” go down. “I should look a certain way.” “They should kiss me a certain way.” “We’ll both orgasm at the same time.” In other words, we expect things to be straight out of a movie…
But here’s the real deal: you’re going to orgasm way easier – and more intensely – if you get out of your head, and into your body. So on today’s throwback show, I’m helping you have fully embodied sex using your senses. If you're not turned on or inspired to have sex, I’ve got sensory tools you can use to remove mental blocks and seduce yourself or your partner…and feel all the electric sensations leading up to the big O.  

In this episode you’ll learn:

Why you’re dissociating during sex and how to stop

Ways to talk dirty without swearing

How to bring back an MIA orgasm


Show Notes:


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Listen in on my conversation with my friend Matthew Hussey. You may know him as the inspirational YouTube personality, author, and public speaker who has revolutionized the world of dating advice with his amazing methods. We chat about emotional journeys, what Matthew has learned in his experience as a relationship coach, and ways to take charge of your love life. If you've been in a dating slump, this is the episode for you.
In this episode you’ll learn: 

How to take charge of your love life

Why reflecting on your instincts is a game changer

The value of valuing yourself first


Show Notes:

Matthew’s New Book: Love Life

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Today, I continue my candid convo with my friend Falguni, answering all your hottest and most personal sex questions. From my experiences in threesomes to my favorite positions, no question goes unanswered. If you’ve ever wondered what the mile high club is like or how to tell your partner they could step up their sex game, tune in. Trust me, this is an episode you won’t wanna miss.  
In this episode you’ll learn: 

Why penetration alone might not always give you an orgasm   

How to take control of your orgasm 

Why communication is the most important part of your threesome


Show Notes:


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