Sex With Emily

In this episode,  I'm breaking down one of my all-time favorite tools: the Yes No Maybe List. If you've ever felt curious about trying something new in bed but didn't know how to bring it up — or didn't even know what was "on the menu" — this episode is for you. I'll walk you through exactly how to introduce the list to your partner, how to fill it out (solo or together), and most importantly, how to turn your “yeses” into real plans you'll actually follow through on. I'm also sharing some incredible stories from our community, breaking down newer terms you might not have heard of, and answering your live questions about what to do when you and your partner don't match up on your answers.



RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:

The Yes!No!Maybe? List: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ 

The Sex With Emily Glossary: https://sexwithemily.com/explore-play/swe-glossary/ 



ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 



CONNECT WITH EMILY:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ 

X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily 

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily



WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ 

Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe 

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! 



Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

02:30 What Is the Yes! No! Maybe? List?

04:40 How the List Can Improve Your Sex Life

06:20 Why Singles Should Explore Their Desires

07:40 Bringing Novelty Back Into Relationships

08:17 How to Prepare for the Conversation

10:20 Filling Out the Yes! No! Maybe? List

11:43 Exploring New Interests

15:00 Massages, Pleasure & Connection

17:10 Turning Your Yeses Into Real Experiences

20:30 Navigating Different Answers With Your Partner

24:48 Overcoming Shame, Fear & Blocks

32:08 How Desires Change Over Time

35:44 Healing Through Communication & Trust

43:53 Final Takeaways & Next Steps
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What if you've been measuring your sex life all wrong? In this episode, I explore why sexual satisfaction is about so much more than orgasms, performance, or how often you have sex. Together, we'll discuss how mindfulness, self-awareness, emotional connection, and open communication can help you create deeper pleasure and more fulfilling intimacy. I'll also share ways to let go of shame, strengthen your connection with yourself and your partner, and redefine what satisfaction truly means. Whether you're single or partnered, this conversation will help you build a sex life that feels more authentic, connected, and pleasurable.



ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 



CONNECT WITH EMILY:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ 

X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily 

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily



WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ 

Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe 

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! 



Chapters:

0:00 Welcome to Sex With Emily

0:58 "Pleasure Begets Pleasure"

2:19 What Sexual Satisfaction Really Means

5:30 The Performance Myth

7:22 Cultural Messages and the Pleasure Gap

10:00 Mindfulness Improves Intimacy and Desire

13:06 How Shame Blocks Sexual Satisfaction

15:36 Supporting Your Partner’s Pleasure Journey

16:34 Avoiding Comparison in Relationships

18:27 Communication and Giving Feedback During Intimacy

20:02 Bucket Lists and Keeping Things Exciting

21:21 Redefining Intimacy Beyond Sex

28:03 What's the Goal?

31:40 Is Intellectual Conversation a Love Language?

33:25 Why Vulnerability Creates Deeper Connection

39:46 “Heard, Hugged, or Helped?”

45:52 Final Thoughts
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What if the key to more pleasure isn't doing more… it's slowing down? In this workshop, I walk you through a practice that can help you become more present in your body, reduce stress, deepen self-awareness, and discover what truly feels good to you. We talk about why mindfulness and pleasure go hand in hand, how to create a self-pleasure ritual focused on exploration rather than performance, and simple techniques to help you tune into sensation, quiet distractions, and build a stronger connection with your body. Whether you're looking to expand your pleasure, boost confidence, reduce anxiety, or simply learn more about yourself, this workshop offers practical tools you can start using today.



ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 



CONNECT WITH EMILY:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ 

X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily 

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily



WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ 

Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe 

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!



Chapters:

0:00 Welcome to Sex With Emily

0:54 Why People Masturbate

1:56 Understanding Mindfulness & Being Present

5:30 Maintenance vs. Mindful

9:51 How To Set The Mood For It

16:53 Mindful Self-Pleasure for Vulvas

18:53 Mindful Self-Pleasure for Penises

21:32 Step-by-Step Mindful Routine

26:20 Q&A: In the Shower or Bath?

27:07 Q&A: Making Meditation a Daily Routine

29:59 Q&A: Why Self-Pleasure May Feel Unexciting

31:02 Q&A: Favorite Meditation Styles & Apps

32:42 Q&A: How Often Should You Practice?

35:28 Q&A: Scheduling Time

36:59 Q&A: Can You Practice With a Partner?
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What if the key to a better sex life has nothing to do with sex itself? In this episode, I'm joined by my friend Jennifer Cohen to explore the powerful connection between wellness, confidence, fitness, and sexual health. We talk about overcoming performance anxiety, why exercise can improve desire and arousal, the role honesty plays in intimacy, and whether chemistry can actually grow over time. Plus, we answer audience questions about attraction, confidence, relationships, and the habits that help you feel your best both in and out of the bedroom.



This episode is sponsored by Biologica: Head to https://biologica.com/SEXWITHEMILY to get started and get up to 32% off your first subscription order today! Take their Quick Hormonal Life Stage Quiz to find the formula that’s right for you.



ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 



CONNECT WITH EMILY:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ 

X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily 

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily



CONNECT WITH JENNIFER COHEN:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealjencohen/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therealjencohen

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@habitsandhustle

Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/ 



WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ 

Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe 

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! 



Chapters:

00:00 Why Sexual Health Changes Everything

01:14 The Link Between Feeling Good & Having Better Sex

03:12 Are Sex And Intimacy Actually The Same Thing?

04:47 Why Performance Anxiety Happens In Bed

06:10 The Trick To Stop Overthinking During Sex

10:00 Why Working Out Makes Sex Better

12:03 How We Became Friends & Started Talking About Sex Nonstop

13:44 How To Tell Your Partner About Your Insecurities

16:08 How To Actually Approach Someone Without Being Weird

18:43 Masculine Energy, Feminine Energy & Dating Drama

24:42 Biohacking, Wellness & Feeling Hot Again

27:38 Vaginal Dryness, Hormones & Things Nobody Talks About

31:55 Aminos, Creatine & The Confidence Glow Up

34:00 Why Chemistry Matters more Than You Think
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In this workshop, I'm answering your questions about desire, attraction, turn-ons, fantasies, and sexual connection. We explore why we're attracted to certain people and experiences, how to talk about sex with a partner without creating pressure, what to do when desire changes over time, and why feeling a spark for someone else doesn't necessarily mean something is wrong with your relationship. Whether you're curious about your own turn-ons, struggling to stay present during sex, or looking to deepen intimacy with a partner, this conversation will help you approach desire with more curiosity, confidence, and self-understanding.

This episode is sponsored by BTL: Learn more about the EMSELLA & EXOMIND treatments from BTL at BodyByBTL.com



ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 



CONNECT:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ 

X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily 

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily



WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ 

Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe 

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!



Chapters:


0:00 Welcome to Sex With Emily


1:48 Understanding What Truly Turns You On


7:34 How to Talk About Sex Without Making It Awkward


12:09 How to Stay Present During Sex


18:01 Why Taking Longer Is Completely Normal


19:43 Taking a Break During Sex Without Killing the Mood


24:25 How Men Can Improve Ejaculation Control


28:31 Why Certain Things Turn You On


34:30 When Fantasy Doesn't Match Expectations


37:30 Different Turn-Ons in Relationships


41:50 Is It Normal to Feel Attraction to Someone Else?


45:54 How to Reignite Emotional Intimacy
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