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Ever wonder what really happens inside a sex therapist's office? Dr. Jenni Skyler, certified sex therapist, founder of the Intimacy Institute, and co-host of Sex and the Psyche, pulls back the curtain on what couples are really struggling with, why low desire is more normal than you think, and the two metaphors that change everything: the erotic piggy bank and the car on the highway.



We also get personal about Vyleesi. Our own experiences, the side effects, and what it actually feels like when desire comes back online. Spoiler: it gets good.



And yes, we go there. The myths, the duty sex, the midnight shoulder tap, the pressure to have simultaneous orgasms like it's a Hollywood movie. All of it on the table.



In this episode:- The erotic piggy bank: rebuilding desire through non-sexual deposits- Why spontaneous sex is a myth and what to do instead- The ten-minute invitation technique that changes everything- Vylisi vs. Addyi: our honest, personal take



ABOUT DR.JENNI SKYLER

Website: ⁠The Intimacy Institute

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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.



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Real people. Real questions. No filters. In this hotline episode I take live calls from listeners navigating some of the most common and least talked about sexual dilemmas — from a woman in a good relationship who can’t stop fantasizing about women, to a 19-year-old whose birth control has wiped out her desire entirely, to a man trying to reconnect with his wife after a miscarriage, and more. These are the conversations people carry around for years without ever knowing who to ask. Let’s talk about them.

ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:
0:00 Live Hotline: Real Questions About Sex, Desire, and Connection
1:19 Call 1: I’m Fantasizing About Women But I’m in a Relationship With a Man
3:30 Why Moving In Together Can Kill the Spark
5:45 Does He Get to Decide Which Fantasies You Can Have?
8:00 How to Tell Your Partner Exactly What You Want in Bed
10:30 The Yes No Maybe List and Why Every Couple Needs It
12:55 Call 2: Birth Control Took My Sex Drive to Zero
14:45 How the Pill Quietly Affects Desire and Mood
16:30 Learning Your Own Body for the First Time
19:00 Call 3: I’m Bisexual and Leaning More Toward Men
21:00 The Double Standard Around Male vs. Female Bisexuality
23:30 Call 4: My Wife Only Wants Sex When She’s Ovulating
26:00 Sex After a Miscarriage: What Couples Get Wrong
30:00 How to Keep Your Sex Life Alive While Trying to Conceive
32:30 Call 5: My Partner Says She’s Lazy in Bed
35:00 Mutual Masturbation as a Learning Tool
37:00 Call 6: 25 Years Married and Suddenly Insecure About My Body
38:15 What to Do When Insecurity Is Getting in the Way of Intimacy
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Whether it's a body pattern you've never been able to break, a sex life that went quiet during a hard season, or a relationship where desire just doesn't match up — these are the questions people carry around for years without knowing where to take them. Let's talk about real listener questions on orgasm habits, how to restart intimacy after illness, navigating power dynamics in a relationship, and what to actually do when your partner seems completely uninterested in sex.



ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.



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Chapters:

0:00 Real Sex Questions You Were Too Embarrassed to Ask

2:00 Q: I Can Only Orgasm One Way. Can I Change That?

3:47 How to Retrain Your Body for Full-Body Orgasms

6:23 The Breathwork Practice That Changes Everything

8:30 Q: How Do We Restart Our Sex Life After Six Months Off?

10:19 How to Ease Back In Without Pressure or Awkwardness

12:43 Q: I Want to Switch Roles But My Partner Won't

14:27 Top and Bottom Dynamics and Masculine Feminine Energy

17:05 How Age and Experience Shape Power in Relationships

19:17 Q: My Wife Just Wants It Over Quickly. What Do I Do?

21:00 When Culture and Shame Shut Down Desire

23:25 Sexual Health Is Overall Health. Here Is Why That Matters
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If you’re in a relationship where sex has quietly disappeared, you already know it’s not just about the lack of sex. It’s the questions that start creeping in—is she still attracted to me? Did I do something wrong? Why does every touch now feel loaded?

Let’s talk about what actually happens to men emotionally and relationally when a marriage goes sexless, and what you can do to start changing things without making it worse.



ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.



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Chapters:

0:00 – Intro0:40 – What a mismatched-desire marriage feels like1:15 – Listener question: no sex in almost a year2:35 – Effect 1: You start taking it personally3:35 – Why this hits men especially hard5:00 – Effect 2: You pull away, even from affection6:35 – Taking sex off the table to rebuild touch7:35 – Effect 3: You feel disconnected and lonely8:10 – Seeking outside validation9:15 – What do you actually know vs. what are you assuming10:20 – Mismatched desire is common: building a growth mindset around sex






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What if the secret to getting turned on has nothing to do with what happens in the bedroom?



Sometimes the best foreplay starts hours earlier, with the right kind of adventure, connection, or touch that works with your brain chemistry instead of against it. Let’s talk about the trust, titillate, and touch framework for bonding activities that actually prime your nervous system for desire — plus I’m answering your questions on sexual incompatibility, rebuilding your sex drive after having a baby, reigniting a stalled marriage, and reclaiming your sexuality after a relationship that made you feel unseen.



ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.



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