Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Why do we expect everything to happen so damn fast when dating? From the need to feel that instant chemistry to freaking out if someone doesn't text back within 20 minutes, this need for speed is one of the biggest traps holding us back. We're discussing the reasons this mentality sets us up for failure, how to reduce the need to fast-track to the end, and why slowing down a bit can actually make the whole dating process a heck more enjoyable.

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Anyone else seen this phenomenon where people on dating apps are checking that they're looking for something fun/casual and also serious/long term? So which one is it? Or does it need to be an either or? In this week's #brunchtalk episode, we're discussing how to have conversations to clarify someone's intentions, how to not get so hung up on reading between the lines on someone's profile, and ways you can better understand someone's desires and motivations.

Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

Finding Your Person is now OPEN! Registration closes 10/6 so get your spot now: findingyourperson.com

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* Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST
* Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order of Hormone Harmony at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE
* Magic Mind: Get 48% off your first subscription or 20% off one time purchases at https://magicmind.com/dateable with code DATEABLE
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We're not talking about what to wear or how to look, but rather how to elude that contagious energy that just attracts someone to you. And what better expert than Mat Boggs, who shares his own turning point and all the knowledge he's gained in his 20+ years of dating coaching. We're discussing the turn offs and turn ons that either kill attraction or spark it, how to understand what type of vibe you're sending on a date, and ways you can build attraction not just in the early stages – but for a lifetime.

To learn more about Mat, visit https://www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/ and check out his YouTube channel @MatBoggs

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

Finding Your Person is now OPEN! Registration closes 10/6 so get your spot now: findingyourperson.com

Our Sponsors:
* Anisa Beauty: Get 30% off site-wide at www.anisabeauty.com using the code DATEABLE
* Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31.
* Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST
* Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order of Hormone Harmony at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE
* Magic Mind: Get 48% off your first subscription or 20% off one time purchases at https://magicmind.com/dateable with code DATEABLE
* Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEPODCAST
* Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable
* Rosetta Stone: Get 50% off lifetime access at www.rosettastone.com/today with the code TODAY
* VIIA Hemp: Check out their new High THCA Flower and get 15% off your favorite gummies using the code DATEABLE at https://bit.ly/viiadataeable


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Sure you want someone interested but can they be too interested? Or has anyone every told you that you come off too eager? In this week's #brunchtalk episode, we're discussing the perception of interest in dating, how to move forward if someone shares this type of feedback with you, and ways that you can evaluate your own approach to dating based on how you evaluate interest levels.

Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

Finding Your Person is now OPEN! Registration closes 10/6 so get your spot now: findingyourperson.com

Our Sponsors:
* Anisa Beauty: Get 30% off site-wide at www.anisabeauty.com using the code DATEABLE
* Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31.
* Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST
* Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order of Hormone Harmony at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE
* Magic Mind: Get 48% off your first subscription or 20% off one time purchases at https://magicmind.com/dateable with code DATEABLE
* Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEPODCAST
* Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable
* Rosetta Stone: Get 50% off lifetime access at www.rosettastone.com/today with the code TODAY
* VIIA Hemp: Check out their new High THCA Flower and get 15% off your favorite gummies using the code DATEABLE at https://bit.ly/viiadataeable


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What's better than coming across letters you wrote to your ex(s) years later? Julie's diving into how this practice has helped her process the past so she can move forward. No, you don't need to send the actual letter (in fact, it's recommended you do not). And yes, this absolutely will give you the closure and clarity you need. And one day, you'll be able to see how far you've come and how none of this was time wasted. If you're looking for a dose of optimism and tactical tips, tune in for this one. Plus she'll share a bit from the letters on air.

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

Finding Your Person is now OPEN! Registration closes 10/6 so get your spot now: findingyourperson.com

Our Sponsors:
* Anisa Beauty: Get 30% off site-wide at www.anisabeauty.com using the code DATEABLE
* Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31.
* Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST
* Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order of Hormone Harmony at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE
* Magic Mind: Get 48% off your first subscription or 20% off one time purchases at https://magicmind.com/dateable with code DATEABLE
* Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEPODCAST
* Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable
* Rosetta Stone: Get 50% off lifetime access at www.rosettastone.com/today with the code TODAY
* VIIA Hemp: Check out their new High THCA Flower and get 15% off your favorite gummies using the code DATEABLE at https://bit.ly/viiadataeable


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