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38. Overcoming Sexual Prejudice with Project X

Mon, 11 Oct 2021

How do you perceive sex work and sex workers? And why does the stigma around sex work exist?


Sara and co-host Prescott interview Vanessa Ho of Project X, a non-profit group dedicated to advocating for sex workers' rights in Singapore.


Vanessa helps to clarify some of the biggest misconceptions around sex work, and shares with us how the nature of sex work has changed over the years.


We discuss the draconian laws in many Asian countries surrounding sex work and the risks and dangers many sex workers face because they are afraid to come forward due to the stigma and shame associated with the profession.


By learning more about the why’s, what’s and who’s of sex work, this thoughtful episode helps us examine where our own biases and prejudice regarding sex work come from, and challenges us to regard the profession with more compassion. 





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37. Sex FAQs - Casual Sex & Dick Pics

Fri, 23 Jul 2021

After a year of lockdowns, what’s being called the “summer of love” is upon us - wherein people are keen to release their pent up sexual energy.


So on this Sex FAQs episode, Sara chats with relationship coach and clinical hypnotherapist, Valentina Tudose about all things casual…casual sex that is!


Together we tackle common questions crowdsourced from listeners on the following topics:


  • how to transition from a long term relationship to casual sex
  • changing our mindsets about finding the right person
  • what to do about “catches feelings” in a casual situation
  • overcoming society’s judgement about casual sex
  • the motivation behind unsolicited dick pics, and if its ever ok


We also talk about the benefits of casual sex and dating, and give some tips on how to enjoy it while staying true to yourself. If you’re single or casually dating, this episode is one you won’t want to miss.




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36. Penis Performance Pointers - Lasting Longer with Jeff Abraham

Fri, 11 Jun 2021

Calling all penis owners and penis lovers! Want to know how to make sex last longer, and avoid finishing too soon?


On this episode, Sara chats with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, who shares some great pointers on one of the most common penis challenges - early or premature ejaculation (PE).


We start off by discussing the various ways to manage the anxiety, shame and fear around PE and its impact on penis performance.


Some of the strategies include talking openly with our partners, and focusing in on their pleasure instead of just being fixated on the duration of sex as a metric of performance.


After all, longer sex doesn’t always equate to better sex!


Jeff also offers some practical tips on how to introduce toys and other sex-enhancing products in a confident, constructive manner.


Particularly, Promescent’s trademark delay spray for penis owners and arousal gel for vulva owners can be used together can help to close the heterosexual orgasm gap.


This episode will help all penis owners (and their partners) increase intimacy, stay present in the moment and connect on a deeper level.




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35. How to Kegel for Better Sexual Health

Fri, 14 May 2021

[This episode was recorded live as part of the Hong Kong Podcast Festival 2021]


Are you using your pelvic floor to experience better sex and orgasms?


On this live episode, Sara is joined by Trista Chan, a Pelvic Health Physiotherapist from Joint Dynamics to discuss the link between the pelvic floor and the role it plays in our sex lives.


Trista explains what exactly the pelvic floor is and how to locate these muscles in the body. We also discuss the numerous sexual health benefits of strengthening the pelvic floor for all genders through Kegels and other physical exercises.


We discuss the lack of awareness surrounding the pelvic floor, and dispel the notion that strengthening the pelvic floor is only relevant to women post-childbirth.   


In fact, men also have a pelvic floor, which helps them experience stronger erections as well as other health benefits.


Trista then guides the live audience a practical step-by-step process of how to do a Kegel, and encourages everyone to take the opportunity to practice doing Kegels whenever they can. Boring office meetings will never be the same again!


Check out this short and informative episode to learn more about Kegels the correct way, and how they can potentially improve your sex life! 





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34. Exploring Your Sexual Fantasies

Fri, 30 Apr 2021

Why do we love having sexual fantasies, and what are their benefits?


On this episode, Sara chats with guests Mo and Andy, who are stand-up comedians that host the local Ho Ho Hong Kong podcast so be prepared for some big laughs.


We discuss how sexual fantasies stimulate arousal, are an escape from reality (like the pandemic), alleviate boredom and can even help us heal from past traumas.


We each share a few of our own personal stories around our favourite sexual fantasies and whether the reality lived up to our expectations. You might never look a camel the same way again!


We discuss how comfortable we are sharing and exploring our fantasies with our partners, and the role of boundaries in that conversation.


Sara presents some fascinating research around the top 3 most common sexual fantasies and how our fantasies may align with our personalities.


She also reads out several crowdsourced sexual fantasies that showcase the diversity and creativity of the human imagination. Mo and Andy respond with hilarious results.




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